I have so many messages regarding various metaphysical subjects which I just do not have time to answer, so each month I am going to try and cover one or two of them here in my Blog.

So Manifesting…….what is it, why doesn’t it work, are we responsible…..

Manifesting, Cosmic Ordering, The Law of Attraction, words that I am sure many of you have heard and there are now hundreds of books on this topic. However, unless you fully understand the energy of money, your own financial blocks and childhood conditioning, very often people are struggling to manifest their ideal reality.

Its a massive topic so today I am sharing a few exercises for you to work with which may help you to highlight your blocks.

Firstly take yourself back to a 5 year old child, sit quietly and think back to the adults you lived with parents, grandparents etc. Can you remember how your family viewed money, maybe it was plentiful for some of you, for others maybe not.

Did you hear any of the following:

Money doesn’t grow on trees

We can’t afford….a, b, or c

You have to work hard for money

That’s too expensive

Save it all for a rainy day

People in our family never get rich

Go through each quote and see how your body reacts, does it make you feel light, heavy, uncomfortable, does one particular sentence resonate with you ? Even if there is only one you can really remember, that in some form will be creating a block for you. I usually recommend clients can shift anything like this through EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques).

The Second Part – How do you Receive ?

Its known that women often find receiving harder than men, generally as females as the carers and nurturers who look after everyone else. They spend a lot of time giving, rather than receiving.

Ask yourself the following:

When someone pays you a compliment such as, I love your dress, do you say thank you, or brush it off as this old thing I’ve had for 10 years.

Do you feel you deserve gifts, maybe a friend sends you some flowers, or surprises you with a present, do you feel embarrassed or just accept the act of kindness.

Are you someone who only ever eats in cheap restaurants, as you perhaps feel eating in a good restaurant in just a waste of money.

You find the most wonderful dress but its more than you want to pay, do you say I deserve this and buy it, or walk away saying another time.

Are you such a control freak you cannot accept help, whether this be someone looking after your children for an afternoon, a person at work offering to help, or accepting when you require extra support in your business.

Would you feel regular massages or facials are just for rich people.

I can’t afford to travel.

The list goes on but again sit quietly and ask yourself this questions, if you have a reaction to any of them, then thats the one you need work on.

So money is energy, we are energy, basically everything is energy. What we put out to the universe is so very important. For example if we are saying that going to an amazing restaurant is too expensive. The Universe responds to this and registers that we are not deserving, and so sends back more of the same.

Deserving and receiving issues very often relate to low self esteem, a fear of being seen, a fear of what others may think of us.

To receive we are required to give, this is the connection of the energy, so again if you are someone who always takes but never gives, this too can block the flow of money.

As soon as we say, I can’t, I don’t deserve, I can’t afford, Its too expensive, these words echo out into the world.

As spiritual beings, living a human life, we are very powerful at manifesting. However any childhood, current life or psychological issues do need to be addressed first. Saying 100 affirmations a day such as I am Abundant, serve very little purpose if you’ve not done the hard work first !

Our vibration is also very important, so generally positive minded people have what I describe as a happy and loving vibration. This helps them to attract their true desires, people, love, health, money, ideal job etc.

Those who air on the side of negative, particularly if you are someone who blames the world for your problems, thats the vibration you give out.

Now I make it very clear we all have off days, life happens, death happens, relationships break up, its not always wonderful. That would be impossible.  But take time to consider what you put out there, when you walk into an event or party, what do you think people see.  A happy vibrant person, or a heavy dull energy.

To Summarise, how is your energy do you feel you may benefit from a healing session such as reiki or chakra balancing ?

Have you addressed childhood issues around money ?

Do you feel deserving ?

Do you understand that bever so often by treating yourself to a massage, great dress, nice restaurant its better than always going cheap ?

Once you’ve done all of this you can then begin your manifesting.

My top tips:

Declutter your home, wardrobe, purse, office, car, shift that rubbish.

Create a vision board, find a cork board and stick images and quotes on. I use mine mainly for travel and business. For the last 3 years I have visited every country that I put on my board !

Find the Feng Shui point in your home, furthest left hand corner from the front door and place a citrine crystal, a big one ! Also carry a small citrine stone in your purse or handbag.

Donate a small amount of money to charity or a good cause.

Find positive and like minded friends.

Avoid saying, I can’t as much as possible.

Be clear when creating your manifesting list, this is so important !

Just saying I want a relationship for example is way too vague, list every quality you want in that person, and I mean everything including whether you are seeking a male or female.

For money, the tip is the exact amount you wish to receive every month, lets use 3,000 euros as an example.

Write down 3,000

Then why you need it and what are you going to do with it….

Rent

Bills

Food

Car

Clothes

Holidays

If you are putting 500 aside for savings, state what these savings are for do not just put savings.

You can do this for anything but please remember the detail and try to avoid, I just want enough to get by as its very limiting.

I will share more on manifesting another time, if you have any questions or success stories I would love to hear them !